But if we don't get it back -- and trust me, mostly we don't... We're as threatened by beauty, tongue-tied by crushes, and paralyzed by fear as straight guys when they see a beautiful woman.
That's why the reaction most gay guys have when they see somebody at a party or a bar goes something like this: • Who's the cute guy in the corner and why isn't he looking at me?
None of us ever got laid but since we had our games and primitive internet porn we didn't think much of it.
Then I went to college and continued to play video games (alone over the internet) while studying to be a microbiologist.
Unfortunately, most men will have the kind of success with women that they would like. One reason is that they don't know what to do to attract women, and they keep doing the same old things over and over again that aren't working!
I was completely incapable of talking to women and creating a sexual vibe that made them want to sleep with me.
If You Don't Want To Be Good With Women Then All You Gotta Do Is Follow The Advice Of Your Mom Like I Did I think part of the reason I sucked with women was because my father never taught me anything about them.
We may be imagining all sorts of problems that may or may not exist or we’re rationalising our own boundaries, values, and even prior experiences of being in one of these situations (so knowing that we may struggle with the emotional consequences) and are thinking along the lines of, ‘Well…
I’m of a certain age so I need to prepare myself for turning a blind eye to any code amber / red actions and indications because people in this age group tend to be recently broken up / separated / divorced‘. There’s no easy answer to the question of what the ‘right time’ is for dating a separated or recently divorced person.
• I can't go over there and say something unless he looks at me, I just can't • If he were interested he'd look back • Damn, he's not looking • I wouldn't know what to say, anyway • I'm lonely • How am I supposed to go on a date if I can't even meet somebody?