Him replying, "nothing," to your booze-fueled, "sup," does not mean you'll have a spring wedding. Begin some kind of intense, rage-based workout routine. Maybe it's a good time for something new, like kickboxing. Go out and get yourself some strange from a guy who is either a King of Leon or just has dirty hair. If you take it step by step and enjoy it as a casual thing for a while, that'll give you some time to evaluate whether you're actually ready to be with someone again or if you're just ready to have really hot sex with them in an elevator once in a while. If you don't, you'll repress your feelings until you break down in the office pantry while you're microwaving your pasta and that passive-aggressive asshole Susan comes over and takes you to the women's bathroom and murmurs a bunch of vaguely religious-sounding proverbs like, "This too shall pass." And then every time you and Susan make contact afterwards, it will be weird. If you get a Facebook invite to his best friend's party ... Don't scheme to get him back — scheme to get yourself back.
stay home, put a face mask on, eat Chinese, and watch , you think to yourself as you do a nasty seventh grade dance grind with the guy you once referred to as a "dicksnack tool moron." Actually, assuming his best friend is some guy you don't really care about, going to that party still makes it all about him — not your emotional well-being. Get some solid book recs, join a pickup sports game, go on a trip somewhere with a girlfriend.
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When's the last time you really filled up your tub (clean it first, please) and had a good soak with a glass (bottle) of wine? It's almost reverse-narcissistic to blame yourself that much!At times like these, you need to think beyond chemistry and sizzle.You need to know if he’s the one for you in the long run. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't there" anymore. Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness. After all, most love stories don't feature a couple enraptured with each other's ethics. God created us to see ourselves as good (hence our need to either rationalize or regret our wrongdoings). Nice looks, an engaging personality, intelligence, and talent (all of which count for something) may attract you, but goodness is what moves you to love. Just focus on the good in another person (and everyone has some). I was once at an intimate concert in which the performer, a deeply spiritual person, gazed warmly at his audience and said, "I want you to know, I love you all." I smiled tolerantly and thought, "Sure." Looking back, though, I realize my cynicism was misplaced. Erich Fromm, in his famous treatise "The Art of Loving," noted the sad consequence of this misconception: "There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly, as love." (That was back in 1956 ― chances are he'd be even more pessimistic today.) So what is love ― real, lasting love? What we value most in ourselves, we value most in others. Oh, the number of times I have drunk-texted something cryptic to an ex at 2 a.m.